This.
The biggest mistake I see in the fiat spec world, is that they become bloated with everyone else's wishes.
I like the way that the NIP process has developed, though it has its criticisms.. It's reasonably organic, and the only mandatory NIP is NIP-01.
This process gives me a lot of flexibility. For example, I like NIP-04 because it gives basic secure notification capability for any npub. That's incredibly useful, but understand all of the metadata issues, so exploring NIP-17
Anyway, we have something great going here. These are good problems to have and sort out early.