Perhaps we need the concept of blinded applications and blinded grants?
The idea is that you put in a blinded application with no expectation of any feedback, other than anonymous funds being sent your address, if the application is of merit.
While an inference could be made that the funds were the result of a successful application, neither party is obliged to attribute anything.
This approach would reduce of feelings of obligation and/or rejection.
What say you?
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