I actually have open, honest and productive conversations on #nostr because no one is playing to an algorithm or wanting to be top dog on the platform (because there is no platform).
I am also falling into my old habit of blog first, revise later. For those who care, I published a book in that manner. It didn’t set out that way, but I had more than enough material that was vetted by users beforehand. Only about 40% of the content, revised, ended up being in the book, but that was a great outcome of the whole process.